Oubaitori Wellness
The Neuro-Somatic Executive Intensive.
A 90-day private partnership for high-achieving, neurodivergent women. Transition from high-functioning survival and burnout to a life of embodied safety, purpose, and pleasure.
Led by Samalie Rivera: Interventional Psychiatric RN, Board-Certified Health & Wellness Nurse Coach, Certified Feminine Embodiment Coach, and Psychiatric DNP student.
The Cost of the Masking
The Inner Critic: Your inner voice tells you that you are never doing enough, you are dropping the ball, and you are constantly one step away from falling behind.
The Adrenaline Trap: You carry the weight of everyone else's expectations. You manage your Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) by over-delivering and people-pleasing, leaving your nervous system in a chronic state of "high-functioning freeze."
Somatic Self-Abandonment: You treat your body like a vehicle that just transports your brain from meeting to meeting. You ignore the subtle "check engine" lights like the jaw tension, the skipped meals, and the shallow breathing. You push through on a cocktail of adrenaline and cortisol until your body has no choice but to pull the emergency brake, making you physically sick just so you will finally rest.
Why Planners and Productivity Hacks Fail.
Traditional productivity hacks and time-management planners fail high-achievers because they try to fix a biological problem with a mindset trick. You cannot out-think a dysregulated nervous system. I am here to help you rebuild your resilience from the bottom up.
What Lives on the Other Side of Survival Mode?
When your nervous system is stuck in a chronic threat response, you are biologically incapable of feeling joy. You cannot experience pleasure or connect to your deeper purpose when your body thinks it is in a burning building. By using somatic tools to turn off the survival alarm, we rebuild your capacity to truly enjoy your success. You will learn to rest without guilt, lead with regulated purpose, and reclaim the somatic pleasure you have been cut off from. You were not meant to just survive your own success. You were meant to be present for it.
Led by Samalie Rivera: Interventional Psychiatric RN, Board-Certified Health & Wellness Nurse Coach, Certified Feminine Embodiment Coach, and Psychiatric DNP student.
What is Oubaitori? Oubaitori (pronounced oh-buy-toe-ree) (桜梅桃李) is an ancient Japanese idiom that describes the distinct blooming of four trees: the Cherry, the Plum, the Peach, and the Apricot. The lesson is simple but profound: Each flower blooms in its own time, and in its own way.
For the woman with ADHD, this is the ultimate medicine. You have spent years comparing your timeline to others, abandoning your own unique nature to fit a standard that was never made for you. Here, we stop forcing the bloom and start tending to the roots.
Meet Samalie Rivera
Your brilliant, neurodivergent mind should not come at a heavy physical cost. As a Psychiatric Registered Nurse, Board-Certified Health & Wellness Nurse Coach, Somatic Coach, and a woman with ADHD myself, I specialize in helping high-achieving, neurodivergent (ADHD) women stop out-working their own biology.
My private practice exists at the intersection of neurobiology, somatic healing, and feminine embodiment. Driven by a commitment to the future of psychiatry, I currently work within the Interventional Psychiatry department of a world-renowned hospital. My clinical work is complemented by leadership roles in the psychedelic and holistic nursing fields, including serving on the North East leadership team for OPENurses (Organization of Psychedelic and Entheogenic Nurses) and the Nominating Committee for the American Holistic Nurses Association (AHNA).
Together, we will transform your survival response into a state of embodied safety. We are not here to fix your nature. We are here to tend to it.
Samalie Rivera, RN, BSN, HWNC-BC, RYT
Stop out-working your biology.
Discover a collection of clinical, 1-to-10-minute nervous system resets designed for the busy, neurodivergent professional who doesn't have time for a 60-minute meditation.
Trusted by Neurodivergent Women, Leaders, and High-Achieving Women
Testimonials
"Working as a nurse is demanding, and I found myself facing severe burnout. Through tailored strategies and consistent encouragement, Sammie helped me rediscover my passion, manage my stress, and set healthy boundaries. I’m not only a more balanced professional but also a happier person."
-Paulina Wolski, RN
"I was feeling overwhelmed with starting a business, being a single mother, and working a full-time job. Sammie helped me regulate throughout the day when my emotions were overwhelming. I learned how important it is to slow down, realizing that our body and minds are so connected and we need to nourish both."
-Erin Curry, RN
"Her approach is both structured and intuitive. She has a unique ability to break down complex issues, highlight key areas of focus, and offer practical strategies. Beyond our sessions, she followed up with additional resources, showing her true dedication to my growth."
-Patrycja Szostak, RN
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You Don't Have to "Fix" Yourself.
The world has asked you to wear a mask for long enough. If you're ready to finally put it down and discover the power, purpose, and peace that's been waiting underneath, your journey home begins here.
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